Wearing 'her' flower necklace? In sims 2 Death is a male
Well, you would assume so, but I seem to remember someone extracting Death out of the objects.package, and finding out that simDeath was actually female. It might not have actually been extracted, so it could have been one of those effects that only happened with a sociable Grim Reaper mod installed (possibly the WooHoo cutscene, it's been a long time since I saw a screenshot of it).