heh heh, no Daemon Tools or hiders here and definitely not Vista! LOL (definitely waiting a few years for that one)
I am checking out this link I found at MTS2, it kinda seems like the same type of problem, but I'll try it anyways!
http://www.modthesims2.com/article.php?p=614290EDIT* so yeah, I'm just a total idiot today, must be the new computer, its made my brain mush, I guess installing the game with the internet running JUST DOESN'T WORK, well not for me anyways!!
As soon as I unhooked from the internet, the patch worked just fine!! that's my DUH for the day, thanks for your help Jordi!!