Wow, thanks seelindarun, I guess I should have done a proper search!
I am so glad its just not me though!!
Its soo funny thou (strange funny), this is the very first time I
ever experienced this situation. I have been playing Sims2 since it came out and I played with NL in my game since it came out, and none of my playable sims ever had that problem. Guess I've been very lucky, eh?
I will definitely try out the delete character solution and maybe even install this famous Macrotastics as the endless clicking and directing sims in the same routine is getting a bit old!! LOL
Thanks again!!