Damn Auto Flirting is Ruining my game

[JadeDruid]

I had this PERFECT senario worked out.

My 1st generation woman had a daughter and raised her on her own.
The daugher met her love in highschool
The daughter went to college so did her BF
They moved back in with her now-elder mom
They got married. (this is where it goes all haywire)

The mom flirted with the new son-in-law during the wedding party
The bride slaps the groom up and down, despite the fact he didn't ask for that.

Rant Summary: I NEED a no-auto flirting mod, and I've searched here but can't find one. Can anyone link me? Or does it exist??

[Ness]

I know there's something in the Pescado stable that helps deal with this...  romance mod?  I just can't think what it is right now!

[jsalemi]

Yea, the romance mod would cut that kind of thing down.

[twink]

I have romance mod, still while loading the new CAS family both guys flirt with the girl (have only one attraction each), hate each other and have a heart for her. I also need a strong mod for that flirt.

Good Simming
Twink the elder

[vilia]

If you are really worried about attraction between mother and son-in-law and you already have the romance mod then make them 'family' in SimPe. This will stop them from making any moves on each other.

[Magicmoon]

The mom flirted with the new son-in-law during the wedding party
The bride slaps the groom up and down, despite the fact he didn't ask for that.

Actually, he did deserve it. Sims have the choice to refuse flirtatious advances. They only get into trouble with their significant other if they accept the flirt.

The Romance Mod cuts down on some jealous reactions, but I don't think it would have stopped this one because the bride should have gotten jealous.

If you use TwoJeffs Casual Romance mod, it will help. Using that mod, the male Sim would have asked himself if there was anyone around who would get jealous if he accepted the flirt. The answer would be yes, the bride. Then he most likely would reject the flirt.

The male Sim still could have decided to accept the flirt even though his wife was there. This small chance was added to add some excitement and reality to the game since some people are really stupid enough to make or accept flirts even though it is risky. Really outgoing, romance Sims have the highest chance of doing something that would elicit jealousy, while family Sims usually won't take that kind of risk.

[JadeDruid]

Actually the mother was High Outgoing, Romance sim.

And I have the "closer family" hack downloaded from sexy sims 2 that probably made the mother fail to recognise her new son.

[Magicmoon]

I have the "closer family" hack downloaded from sexy Sims 2 that probably made the mother fail to recognize her new son.

Even without that mod in place,  I don't think that mother-in-law/son-in-law relationships are counted as family. I think only blood relations up to cousins count.

[Marhis]

If your married (with crush&love flags setted) sim flirts autonomously with others, then it's because he has other crushes, or the other sims have. Clear those extra flags, and the sim will never flirts automously with anybody else than his wife (unless of course you use ACR).

[J. M. Pescado]

Romance Mod will cause sims to reject flirts, rather than always accepting them, and apparently also fixes it so the right person gets slapped.