I had already tried updating her portrature by making her selectable. All it did was change her profile. Her picture in the lot list and the large pic of her at bottom of screen are of a different Sim/Outfit. Forgive the delay, had to find/download Snag-It, then change to a .jpg so i could post a picture on my yahoo page. (tried Insert Image, but it wouldn't show as Yahoo doesn't acceft .gif files).
I have never selected her in the past, nor changed her outfit. This is still a fairly new Neighborhood, in fact only one sim has died, and i was able to successfully plead for his life (several Elders are getting close tho).
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