I don't think it has to do with who you are currently building a relationship with either because the first sim that's listed in the
bolts/chemistry panel my seleted sim has not even seen/spoke to her since college. He has 3bolts with her though (which didn't appear until they returned to the neighborhood
). Never dated, no crush, nothing.
The 2nd in the list (2 bolts) but hasn't seen/spoke to her since college either. Never dated, no crush, nothing.
The 3rd is a townie (2 bolts) he just met, went on date, has a crush on (after he started going steady with his fiance). The rest are other townies who he never dated, etc..
His fiance is like #8 or something. They see each other everyday, 2bolts, have crushes, are in love and going steady.
*Again, I'm reffering to the order in then bolts/chemistry panel not the regular relationship panel.*
TwoJeffs, I was going to use the crystall-ball to see if it came up with the first couple of sims on the list (which would not include his fiance). I guess that wouldn't work to figure out what's going on, huh? lol