I usually have them skill on charisma unless they get a want for a logic point. I feel the same way about them not being able to work on that skill as a child, and if they're low on outgoing, it's tougher if they wind up with the "max 7 skills" ltw and the smart milk didn't stick through the toddler/child transition.
So my toddlers usually have 8 to 9 charisma skill points before they transition, and I've had a few (high outgoing) max out in that time. Those with 9 points are usually about 80-90% through that last point, so there isn't much left for them to work on later.
Logic and creativity are usually maxed before they're teens, anyway, so I get the charisma out of the way first. Then I don't have to listen to their silly speeches. The wabbit head doesn't bother me as much.