save and reload no help and they will go back by just telling them to walk there don't even need "moveobjects".
What? Okay, I'm trying to understand your post.
You load a saved game where the sim was in the process of putting a toddler in the crib. They reset when you unpause. Fine. You say this happens every time. So apparently you're reloading the same save every time if the sim is always about to put the toddler in the crib when you unpause. That's why I said save and reload, so you wouldn't be starting from that point anymore.
Did you instead mean that the game won't let the sim put the toddler in the crib period? You tried to do it again after they jump outside, and the same things happens each time? You described the problem as happening after loading the game and unpausing; that's why I thought you were talking about one instance loaded over and over again. Anyways, it sounds like a conflict. Which patch is your game running off of?