1) Use a pen and paper. That's what I do.
2) Only if you are having a party.
Grrr and double grrr
It's bad enough trying to keep up with the people currently in-residence and have them make and maintain friendships and new pledges, but then if people graduate and don't get moved into a house with a phone, I start losing house friends compounded by moving people in that may or may not have enough friends of their own to compensate...TOO MUCH WORK!
heh, I need a Greek House Rushes You mod...