I go into a house I usually play on my rotation, and the teenaged daughter is transparent. I do a force error and she disappears from the game (ie her pic in the panel is gone). So I move the family out and back in. She's gone! Yet she shows up in the family portrait on loading...but I can't move her to Uni! Is she a lost cause? I don't know WTH happened to her and I'm not sure what I would've done! :S
Edit: I check the family tree and she shows up as dead. Wha!?
Edit 2: now I'm checking to see if she's ressurectable. If she did happen to die, why on Earth did the game not flag it with "Your Sim has died on another lot" instead of freaking me out with her appearing as a ghost?
Edit 3: I"m such a dumbass. She got eaten by her friend's grandfather's cowplant!
It still doesn't explain this phenomena though.