Get Over It, Already!

[neriana]

I agree about sexuality being a continuum. I'm waaaaay on the hetero side; I have kissed a girl, but found it completely pointless and dull.

[witch]

What I'm suggesting is that purely physical attraction may be more binary, but that other forms of intimacy may draw us to become sexually expressive with individuals who aren't as physically compelling to us.

You expressed the ideas way more eloquently than I. I agree, emotional intimacy is a pre-requisite to a relationship with a woman whereas a one-off bonk tended to be male. (I say that in the past tense deliberately, I've been happily celibate for the last few years).

Maybe you just didn't kiss the right girl Neriana?

[neriana]

I've never been attracted to any girl, so I don't see the point of kissing one. There have always been plenty of guys to kiss .

[witch]

Oddly though, given that I'm het, I still look at women more than men, women dress more interestingly generally, do more with colour and style. Probably some sort of social conditioning. Sigh.

[Liss]

It irritates me that they will sob about it for ever, but if it's their spouse who dies the wants immediately roll up a new want to get married, especially Wealth sims. Jeez, at least wait until the body's cold!

But there is no body.

What's under the tombstones, then?  :p