Is that *12* I smell?
Actually no. I'm of age. Lame twelvish thing to give your family stuff you no longer need when it's more useful to them (especially if they paid for it to begin with)?
Anyway, that's completely irrelevant to the topic.
I would be careful when considering admonishment of the FOJ. If he wishes to be irrelevant, he will be so. The rest is a boot to your head.