Tight pants status confirmed. I'm three quarters' way through, found one that's blocking "bathe" from appearing at all on the "influence manu" (Talklecture). More to discover because I had "bathe" but it did not work. (I also have something blocking "go hiking", "go jogging", and "talk about hobby..." But I'm getting close.)
Without any CC in, I found by accident that if you put a Karaoke machine on lot, you would have "Influence...Sing Karaoke", which replaces "bathe".
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Search completed. "Childrensleepover" is the other one. Yeah, both of them turned up having a little problem in hackdiff. But so did some others. And they looked find when I first put them in to "test". I apparently did not test "bathe" and the other options which do not appear immediately.