ok,so i found the solution - i just can't minimize game when it's loading family or neighboor.only then will load succesfully.
i don't know why,but it works :/
game works fine,just gets some random crash sometimes,but i guess i can't avoid this.

anyway,sorry for my bad english again,thank you all for help.topic can be closed.

yes,i found that advice here (use "search" before posting,i know )
gonna download patch,and then try to play,will edit post.i hope it will be the end!

edit - i've reinstalled all sims.patched it,put only AwesomeMod.and still endless loading.
and least i dont have critical error message.
i dont know what to do anymore.

ok,i got AwesomeMod.removed crack and game turned on,but...
im still getting message at game loading screen - "critical errror mismatch!"something about other core mod which is interrupting AwesomeMod.and two options - Quit or Ignore.
when i choose Ignore,family or neighboor is loading endlessly.so game is still not working.
removed all custom content,dccache,still the same message.

i tried with all custom stuff.changed crack also - nothing.

i want help for my problem,not to be punished for my bad english - its not my native language.

i have base game all EP's till Pets.

hello,i am watching this site for a long time,but now i have some serious problem.
so,i started to play TS3 after few moths break. downloaded Generations and Pets from PirateBay,then some custom stuff from ModTheSims,TSR.
made new sim,bought cat,etc etc,then turned off game.
next day,turned on,and...all wishes disappeared,also all relationships were resetted.
lost all hopes to solve it.removed all custom stuff,nothing worked.
hoped its because of town (HiddenSprings),but i put some old maded sim to Apooloha city and still same problem.
i dont have original TS3,so i dont know where to look for help...