I GOT IT TO WORK!!!!
I AM SO BLOODY EXCITED!!!
I kept both of the frameworks (the old one from Marhis and the new one from LoofahFlufferduff) , put the resource file in both and the Sims directory and fckn winged it! I can't believe it! Wow....I think I just came.
I did not receive any of the bullshit EA warnings. The only thing I noticed was that some of the text from the menus were missing and that's it! Some of my CC is not showing up but I'll figure that shit out later, lol.
THANK YOU EVERYONE! You've been very kind!