I'm having the same issue as you, and I've had it before. The first time I got the Sims 3 I was running Vista, and when I tried to play the vanilla game I got the error message:
"The sims 3 launcher has encountered a problem and needs to close." It then went on to ask me to file an error report, etc, etc. It was a while back, but if I remember correctly the solution was to right-click the icon of the game launcher and select 'run as administrator- (even though I was on an administrator account, damn Vista!). I don't think that alone was enough though, because I had to go to compatibilities and check... Windows 2000 mode, I think it was.
I hope that helps you, if you have Vista that is. I'm now running Windows XP and am having exactly the same problem, and I have no idea how to fix it.