OK, thanks for your help. So just a quick summary what speeds up my game again.

I have downloaded the process monitor. Started it before playing sims. Just one filter for "Paths" which ends with .package. Then starting the game, playing for 10 minutes. Then back to the monitor. There were about 21000000 package files loaded.
So i tried file summary from the menu, and there were just 4 files which were opened about 20000 times during these 10 minutes of play. So i deleted these 4 files from my CC, deleted the cache files and the game is running like hell again.

Here is the link for all who need this monitor. http://technet.microsoft.com/en-us/sysinternals/bb896645.aspx
So u dont have to read all related articles if u want to get your speed back.

 

First, i am not sure if it is an awesomemod thing or a general problem with the new patch.
Since i have updated, the game is horrible slow. Loading the family lasts about 3 minutes, before the patch it was a few seconds.
And also while playing, the game is slow. Seems like i am playing on an ancient celeron processor and 500MB RAM, and not on 4 cores with 4gb RAM.
Anyone with a solution for this problem?

Would it be possible to make a restriction for romances in storymode so that young people are not going to have a romance with a elders?

btw, is it possible to use a configfile with ISD enabled and ASD enabled? Cause i am currently playing with ISD Disabled and ASD enabled.

Is the NPC Motor Pool unlimited? Or are there just a few available cars? Is it possible to edit this carpool? Cause i have seen that one of my NPC-sims was waiting for hours at his work with the "no way" sign over his head. Then he walks to the road and drove away with the npc motor pool car.

Since i play in window mode instead of fullscreen, i didnt get this freeze after midnight.

So i removed it from the world. Now the car is gone, the purple icon is still there. Then CTRl+Shift-Click on the Icon - Delete, and its gone. Thanks.

towderelicts on fixed 2 cars (police, cars2) from 0 to 1 i would say.
But the mentioned car is still in front of the gym. So thanks for the try.

I am having a derelict car (purple) in my city. Its parked in front of the gym. I cant get rid of it. towderelicts and fixall doesnt help.
And i cant find the option in my NRaas Computer V19 to solve it. Any other ideas?
The person who should be the owner of the car is not living in my city, and its not homeless. So i cant put her back in the car.

I am also having this freeze problem. But for me, it is most times close to midnight. 0:07 or 0:08 is the favorite time for my crash. For me, it never happens when just one person of the household is still awake. Just when all sims are sleeping, then it might freeze. Freeze means that the zzzzz-icon is still moving, the same with the radio. Music is on. But even if i wait 20 minutes, nothing more happens. The clock is not running. So i have to close the game with task manager.
My QuadCore is just on 60-63 percent. So i dont think its something with the hardware.
So i save a lot before i send my sims to bed. When i reload the savegame, there is no problem for the next night, but there might be a freeze again the next night. And its always just a few minutes after midnight.

I played with EA-story mode, then i changed to Awesomemod Story Driver, but it is still the same.