thanks for your answer.

I couldn't figure out what the problem could be. Twice i was able to play for more than several minutes, but it still happens every time after a while. Maybe some kind of voodoo again.... 

I'm not sure if it is the right place to ask my question, but I thoght its better than open a new thread:

When I'm trying to play my game with the awesomemod the game crashes to desktop after 5 or 10 minutes playing in Live mode. No error, nothing.
I have deleted the Cache Files, the scripterrorpackage, there are no other mods in my game, only some patterns and custom hairs. I have the newest version of the awesomemod and the newest version of the EA patch.

When I start my game with the same custom content as mentioned above and without the awesomemod everything works fine and there are no crashes.

I would be very glad if somebody could tell me what I am doing wrong or what I could do to make my game accept the mod without crashing all the time.