Yes. And that of his motherless son (I played the neighboorhood pre-awesome) and the family inventory aswell. Nothing.

I can. And I did. And I got the box with the gravestones, but their's weren't there.

I have a similar problem:

I switched to the Goth family after playing another family for a while. By that time Mortimer was a young adult, both his parents dead and their graves nowhere to be found. They are not in the mausoleum either. I figure graves only stay there for a little while because otherwise the thing would be cramped in no time.

My question:

Is there a way to force spawn graves or any other way to get hold of those ghosts? Because I'd really like them back...