Or, you know, you could just accept that your sim's actions have ruined her life and roll with it. Shit happens.
I love the mod and I really don't want to play without it. But why create something to better the game, and then add in things to spite those who want to do things you disagree with? In some states, 16 is legal, and your insistence that they are 12 doesn't really hold weight when teens are in high school in the game, so at least half of them are over 16.
And Inteen 3 doesn't seem to work with awesomemod. So now I have to choose between a great mod that fixes a lot and my desire to bang 17 year olds.