Oh no...
I have been messing with My Documents files this whole time
Thank you Marhis for pointing that out, how can I get to the my programs files? Sorry
Program Files is on your 'C' drive.
If you've got the TS3 Installer Monkey you shouldn't need to go into the sims 3 files. Once the Monkey is installed, you're meant to unzip/extract awesomemod to your desktop then right click on it and it should have an option to "install to sims 3" click on that (I beleive this information is in the thread that the download is attached to).
If, on the other hand, you're having problems with the Monkey itself, you should ask the person who made it over at Mod the Sims.