Ok, so actually I posted this in other forums as well, but I hope someone can shed some light on my problem. 

In Sunset Valley, I have my own family.  After a while, I switched to playing the Goths.

Mortimer by then is a teenager, while Gunther and Cornelia are elders.  So, no problem yet.

The problem arose when I switched back to my family for a few days, then I went back to the Goths.  Now Mortimer is a young adult, Gunther is still an elder, but now Cornelia is dead, and I can't find her grave!!

My question: is there an easy way to locate the wayward graves?  It kinda sucks having to look for it all over town.

Thanks in advance!