I've had meet-to-marry in less than 24 hours
I had my older Sim roll a Have a Child Wish while the house was full of his 6 kids and his wife was too old for more babies anyway. So I gave him a mid-life crisis and had him chase down some 20-something, woo her, and impregnate her. From "meet" to "bear my child" was about 6-7 hours. He ended up with 2 kids with her.Romance is too easy in this game, compared to the delays forced by the long-term relationship meter in TS2. However, I do appreciate that a single flirt doesn't turn a friendship into instant love.
Two things bug me about the game. The Sims rarely roll romance-related Wishes, even if they have the Hopeless Romantic trait. "Have a Child," yes, but no "flirt with that attractive Sim" and only rarely "kiss so-and-so" or "woohoo so-and-so." I've never, ever seen "marry" or "get engaged."
The other is the way non-playables spontaneously generate children without anyone else. Having the kids with the townie allowed me to look at their family tree, and their half-brother did not have a father. Similarly, I got sick of looking for a romantic interest for one of my Sims, so I created a neighbor guy for her. They did OK, but then she discovers on the second date that he's got a newborn.
Awesomemod fixes this, but I get the impression it's still very much in early beta. I'm not willing to trade annoyances for crashes at this point.
- Gus
I actually had a sim or two roll up the wish to propose to their girlfriend/boyfriend. Woohoo as well, but only with a sim that was already at least a steady relationship. Also didn't ever see a wish to initiate something more romantic (e.g. flirt with an attractive iacquaintance.