Yes I was using the sway mesh, the new ponytail without the ears doesn't come with a sway/non sway option. It only comes with a sway version. I will post in her guestbook and ask.
I haven't seen anyone else saying they've had the same problems with her hair, so thought I'd ask where people are pretty knowledgeable first heh.
Thanks, I'll definitely try the non sway for the first one.