I have the More Awesome Than You Seasons version of the director's cut set found here- http://www.moreawesomethanyou.com/smf/index.php/topic,8.0.html
The only other hacks that I have are not really hacks- for example- anti-line waist, Numenor's Maxis hidden things, a bag of edible food, a training cash register etc. I took everything else out (as far as I can tell)
But for some reason, the majority of the time my adult and young adult sims are not using their free will unless their hunger or bladder are about 95% drained. Over the course of about 8 rl hours of play time I have seen them talk to someone, joke, poke, listen to their child play piano, watch a game of chest, and sit on a couch- each of these once. They clean up ANYTHING and EVERYTHING possible but they NEVER turn on the tv, read, play with the pinball machine or do anything else that they have normally done. They never feed themselves or go to the bathroom until it's almost too late! What the heck?? I really like having them make their own stupid decisions, lol! Any ideas??