1 - Custom frigs. (including one from Life Stories) don't work properly. You can put leftovers (single plates) in them, but you can't get leftovers out. You can't put platters as leftovers in them at all. Tested using Tranquility Frig from Holy Simoly and Lifestories frig. However, if you buy a regular frig, all the leftovers will be in there.
With the toddlers, it seems that they are not getting tired as fast as they should, they have the same sleep rhythm as other sims. They wake up in the morning and can stay awake until late in the evening.
That does appear to be true. My toddler was awake for an entire Sims day, two days in a row.
this is with Pets - of course the first thing I did was take out my hacks - same problem - so I tried vanilla - OK
So it is somewhere in the DL folder - took out lipstick-eyeliner-eyeshadow and earrings etc - same problem (heard a rumor that those items were causing this)