Fix Work State seemed to make sense for me. The game thinks the sim is at work, so the tot won't learn things because of it.
Here, I was reading another Thread here-
Try the lot debugger. Have mommy be active, then click on the debugger. Choose "Fix-Work State". It sounds like the game thinks she's away. Just a thought.
I tried it, and it seemed to work.
I know absolutely nothing and am totally non-awesome, but maybe something is messed up with the mother.
I hope not. She's a clone I had of another sim who mysteriously lost her Character Data and is no longer playable. I had to burninate all of Veronaville because of that and some other mysterious problems. Basically it was a BFBVFS.
Now I just play a custom neighborhood and the merged neighborhood.