So it happened again, when attempting to move another Uni sim back home, that the move-out controller got stuck and he wouldn't transition or leave. Nuked the thing with the Lot Debugger & tried again, no joy (this didn't work the last time either). Then I tried what I'd done before to correct the issue, which was have he & another controllable sim visit a community lot & have him move home from there. No such luck this time, upon completing his phone call the game kicked me back to the Uni neighborhood without saving. Then I tried entering one of the off-campus houses & moving him in there with Inge's teleport bush, then having him move out from THAT house, but again, the move-out controller got stuck & even after nuking it he wouldn't leave. So my last resort is to teleport him straight home using the shrub again, then going into SimPE & turning off his "on campus" toggle, then manually enter the correct # of days for his adult lifespan - I've altered it using Inge's agecons hack to 39 days instead of 29, but when moving Uni sims into the house using the shrub & fixing the Uni toggle with SimPE (had to do this with another sim earlier) it defaults them back to 29 days. This issue more than anything else is making me never want to send another sim to Uni. I suspect it might be the "no family size limit" hack affecting these move outs, but truth be told I've been using so many hacks lately I wouldn't know where to start looking for the culprit.
Ok, just needed to vent, I'm all better now