Can't get married

[SilverFoxxy]

Have an adult female that can't seem to get married.  She was married once and her husband died.  When I use the plant that's called the Family Tree I think, and ask for her spouse it shows the one that died.  Under family tree it also shows him but he is grayed out.  How can I get him completely out of the picture so she can remarry ?  No one else in the hood has had a problem becoming engaged or married but only option for her is Move In or Stay the Night.  Was told Matty had something on this but can't find it.

[Ichigo]

Director's Cut for appropriate expansion pack -> batbox -> "Nuke...Dead Romances"